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Drew Carr, PhD
A wooden dock reaching into still Lake Tahoe water at sunrise.

Anxious the minute you sit down.

Therapy for adults whose anxiety shows up as guilt about resting and never feeling caught up.

Anxiety

Who This Is For

You're exhausted, and the moment you finally relax, the anxiety and guilt arrive.

  • Adults who stay busy because stopping feels worse.
  • People who feel behind no matter how much gets done.
  • Anyone whose evenings and weekends come with a running to-do list in their head.

What We Work On

Guilt about resting

Noticing the rule that says rest must be earned, and testing what happens when you bend it.

The never-caught-up feeling

Separating real deadlines from the general hum of not being done.

Worry loops

Learning to step back from a spiraling thought instead of arguing with it all night.

Avoidance

Spotting the small ways anxiety shrinks your week, and widening it again.

Rest isn't a reward for finishing. You're allowed to stop before the list is done.

How Drew Works

Drew draws on acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), mindfulness-based approaches, Functional Analytic Psychotherapy and behavior analysis. With anxiety, that usually means making room for uncomfortable feelings rather than fighting them, and paying attention to what anxiety pushes you to do.

The aim isn't to never feel anxious. It's to keep anxiety from making every decision about how you spend your time.

What Can Shift

  • Resting feels like falling behindRest becomes a choice you can make on purpose
  • Every urge to check or fix gets acted onUrges get noticed before they become actions
  • Waiting to feel calm before doing anythingTaking the smallest meaningful step anyway

What Sessions Look Like

Each session ends with one small experiment to try before the next, so the work carries into the rest of your week.

Format
45-minute telehealth sessions

Prefer a group setting? See The Self-Led Man.

Payment
Private pay, superbills available
First Step
Free 15-minute consultation
Rates
Contact the practice for current rates

Therapy is available where Drew is licensed and authorized. Contact the practice to confirm current eligibility before scheduling.

Try Before Next Session

This Week's Experiment

Pick one twenty-minute window this week to do something unproductive on purpose. Notice what your mind says while you do it, and what happens if you stay anyway. Bring what you noticed to the next session.

Frequently Asked Questions

Do I need a diagnosis to start?

No. You can start by describing what's going on. Drew will talk with you about what seems to be happening and what might help.

Will therapy make the anxiety go away?

No one can promise that. The work focuses on changing your relationship with anxiety so it has less say over your life.

What if sitting still on video makes me anxious too?

That's useful information, and you can say so. Sessions can move at a pace that feels workable.

Start with a free consultation. You don't have to be caught up first.

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